Love is a beautiful thing, when you get it! How many of us can testify and say that we have been given and given genuine love? I am not talking about the love your mother and father gave you. I am talking the love that the bae you plastered on the gram gave you. I seen hands go down. I am here to help you real quick.

HE LOOKS AT YOU LIKE HE DOESN’T BELIEVE YOU EXIST.

‘I can not believe you are my woman, I never thought I would find a woman like you.’ You know that look? That is the one I am talking about! Then you know he is all the way in!

HE IS NOT AFRAID TO MAKE A SACRIFICE FOR YOU.

This has to be top two of the romantic things that a man can do for you! He chooses to see you smile and let go of something he would have for himself. What a love!

HE OPENS UP TO YOU WITHOUT FEAR.

Men often hide their feelings and play tough. They provide a shoulder and never act like they need yours. When he chooses to open that door of vulnerability with you, sis you are in for the win!

HE WANTS TO DO BORING TASKS WITH YOU.

If he shops all day with you and yet it bores the life out of him then he is doing it for the love. He would rather be bored with you than be with anybody else. Tell me this isn’t genuine love.

HE WANTS TO LISTEN TO YOU.

The man will put his phone down and look right at you as he speaks. His attention is on you, the entire time. We all know women listen better than men, for men it takes effort. It is that effort that shows where he stands. I am talking listening to understand and not to respond.

Check your man and let me know where you stand, otherwise it could be time to start over baby girl! I still love you babes! CIAO!