Author: <span class="vcard">uBu</span>

I AM NOT READY

God will never put us in situations/seasons/assignments without preparing us or making us ready. So if you are in a relationship with HIM, he will tell you when you are ready. Everyone else can sit down with their opinions. You wonder why depression is on the rise, itโ€™s because we are venturing into things that…


5 SIGNS HE IS GENUINELY INTO YOU.

Love is a beautiful thing, when you get it! How many of us can testify and say that we have been given and given genuine love? I am not talking about the love your mother and father gave you. I am talking the love that the bae you plastered on the gram gave you. I…


4 REASONS WHY YOUR DAYS SUCK!

‘This day sucks already, can it end?’ Many of us have these days and while I get that life happens, does it happen all week long. Or for an entire month or are we just our here putting it on life when we can change a thing or two. Yes, I am here to tell…


3 PIECES OF ADVICE FOR ANY LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

Touch, a language of its own. It says what words won’t and the sensation it brings plays back in our minds, over and over again. The look in the next person’s eyes tells you who they are in your life, it sparks a fire in your heart. It’s the little things, right? It’s the little…


3 EFFECTS OF CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

Our parents know provision to be love. So for any time you yell, ‘you never loved me anyway!’ they respond, ‘I clothed you, I put you in school, I fed you if that isn’t love then that’s that!’ I know you have been here, especially if you are an African child. In African homes talking…


8 CORNY QUOTES TO KEEP YOUR LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ALIVE!

“Long distance relationships are the GHETTO!” Yes, yes they are and for someone who agrees with this notion, I have been in one too many. If we really look at it closely, you don’t really plan on getting into a long distance relationship, life just happens most times. Your heart can’t really be stopped, sigh….


8 CHEAT STORIES THAT WILL HAVE YOU GLAD YOU ARE SINGLE!

Who hasn’t been cheated on? I know I have, plenty of times too! Here is what I discovered as I worked on this blog post(the idea came when I bumped into this thread on Reddit), when you hear other peoples stories you become grateful for yours because they don’t seem that bad. No, seriously, scroll…


THE EFFECTS OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE

Wow! I played myself. 100% played myself! I walked into a trigger and had told myself I would never, lesson one trust your instincts. I watched surviving R Kelly, for those of you who are new to my blog I was abused as a child. I talk about it more in this blog post, you…


8 RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS THAT SHOW THAT THE LOVE IS NO MORE.

Cheating, abuse, and threats are top of the list reasons to pack your bags and run. Then we have those times when we stay but we not really there anymore. And that is what I will be addressing today because we need to be real with ourselves. I mean, YOLO right!? YOU NEED TO FIND…


8 REASONS WHY YOU ARE SINGLE.

Fear plays such a big role in our lives sometimes we don’t even realize it. We have all had a season of, “I am single and happy, ” yes we have. We have defended our being single in so many different ways but I think sometimes we are just afraid. Afraid because we have tried…


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