Category: LIFE & LESSONS

I AM NOT READY

God will never put us in situations/seasons/assignments without preparing us or making us ready. So if you are in a relationship with HIM, he will tell you when you are ready. Everyone else can sit down with their opinions. You wonder why depression is on the rise, itโ€™s because we are venturing into things that…


4 REASONS WHY YOUR DAYS SUCK!

‘This day sucks already, can it end?’ Many of us have these days and while I get that life happens, does it happen all week long. Or for an entire month or are we just our here putting it on life when we can change a thing or two. Yes, I am here to tell…


3 EFFECTS OF CHILDHOOD EMOTIONAL NEGLECT

Our parents know provision to be love. So for any time you yell, ‘you never loved me anyway!’ they respond, ‘I clothed you, I put you in school, I fed you if that isn’t love then that’s that!’ I know you have been here, especially if you are an African child. In African homes talking…


THE EFFECTS OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE

Wow! I played myself. 100% played myself! I walked into a trigger and had told myself I would never, lesson one trust your instincts. I watched surviving R Kelly, for those of you who are new to my blog I was abused as a child. I talk about it more in this blog post, you…


HOW AN OLD MANS ADVICE BROUGHT ME PEACE.

Friday 5 April I woke to the news I knew was coming for a long time but still stung. My grandfather had left this earth, he took his last breath and bid us goodbye. I wept. I felt every piece of my heart shatter, my body ran out of strength and all I wanted to…


HOW TO STOP TAKING THINGS PERSONALLY

Nothing hurts more than doing something for someone out of love and them simply not appreciating it. I went through it this very week. Story time! So, this week was a week of so much research for me. And in the midst of researching I found this amazing app used to edit videos, needed it…


REASONS OUR LIVES ARE UNFULFILLED

We are the chosen generation,right? I mean can we surely sing and shout it out loud that we are chosen. We have it good and can totally conquer. I guess we sorta, kinda are but most of the time we are in limbo. You may be thinking, ‘Bu, I’m as stable as a horse,’ well…


8 WAYS TO SURVIVE YOUR 20’S

I have not made it out of my 20’s yet and quite frankly half the time I am choked up, curled up into a ball and contemplating life. Nobody ever warned us about this adulting thing, they painted a picture of financial freedom and so much more. What is freedom when the bills stay piling…


KEY THINGS MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT DEPRESSION

Our men have been raised to think that their job is to be strong, to never cry, to be a pillar and never fall. If they do fall it is wrong for them to wallow, they need to get up immediately, clean up and get back at it like nothing ever happened. It is a…


3 SIMPLE WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR PEACE

I have met verbally abusive people in my life. I have taken in so much there is a time I hated the idea of speaking to another human being. And the problem is I kept all those words and nurtured them, I held onto them and made them a part of them. I allowed them…


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