Wondering how to keep the sexual tension building when you are in a long-distance relationship, let me help you out a little bit over here!

• Play-by-Play – in this little game you both find private spots to masturbate. You keep each other updated as you near orgasm, it would be better if you could do this over a video call.

Spice it up by racing whoever finishes first or last wins and they get a sexual treat the next time you are in the same room.

• Body part enigma – turn up the heat with this game. It could easily lead to play-by-play. You both strip and take close up pictures of body parts and the other has to guess which part of the body that is.

•Treasure Hunt – the next time you visit your person hide something risque, could be your lingerie or a stack of nudes. Days or Weeks later play treasure hunt with them over the phone, as you give them clues to follow. Keep it fun!

•This-or-That – paint two sexual scenes for your partner and ask them to choose the one that would turn them on or get them there. Do they wanna be cuffed to the bed whilst you ride them or do they want vanilla yoghurt licked off their body!? Put it into the chosen choices into play when you have them with you!

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. I will be taking suggestions now. If there aren’t any, CIAO!