Author: <span class="vcard">uBu</span>

OLD SCHOOL JAMS SUITED FOR FOREPLAY

Sex me already! This is the music that will have you ready for the strokes before he or she is done teasing you with whatever tricks they have up their sleeves. I mean, the lyrics alone, gad dammit! LL COOL J – DOING IT It’s our first time together and I’m feeling kinda horny Conventional…


THINGS THEY SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU ABOUT SEX & MARRIAGE

Traditionally in most parts of Africa (and other parts of the world as well), when a woman is about to get married the female elders sit you down and give you “a talk” about what to do and what not to do in marriage. A big chunk of this is about your sex life. I…


SEX & THE FIRST LETTER OF YOUR NAME…

Sex and your name (it seems to run true!!!) According to studies, your sexual identity is revealed by the First letter of your First name …what do you think? (Those of you with names that start with “N” will probably wish it started with “K”!)  -A- You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You…


UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU CHAPTER 7

The regret was not for choosing him, it was for choosing to follow my talent, the choice I made to be myself seemed to have begun to turn on me. Thought’s of the times I had to the opportunity to cave in and just do what my parents wanted me to be started to haunt…


SONGS YOU DIDN’T KNOW WERE ABOUT SEX

Childhood ruined! In my defense, my mind was very innocent so I heard what I heard. Now I wonder what our parents used to think as we sang these songs out loud in the hallway. Or when it came on and we got all excited talking about, ‘that’s my song!’ Oooh, chile! No Diggity –…


FOOLPROOF TACTICS TO GET YOU THINKING POSITIVE

Truth #1: We Have Velcro In Our Brains. If you tend to lean towards anxiety, fear and pessimism about your life and the world, you are not alone. Humans have evolved to fundamentally focus on what can go wrong around us, seeking potential threats to our very existence. Rick Hanson puts it perfectly in his book, Hardwiring Happiness,…


HOW TO BE A TINDER HIT…

With today’s tech advancements and fast-paced life, it is no wonder that apps like Tinder have emerged and changed the face of dating for singletons around the globe. What has caught my attention in the past four years of my using Tinder and similar apps in various locations, is that different countries seem to have…


HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT…

There seems to be a serious problem on our hands and we need to fix it. I feel like if I roll my eyes one more time for every dumb thing a guy does or says to ‘impress’ me they won’t unroll. I take the fault on behalf of the ladies, cause we haven’t made…


UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU CHAPTER 6

For those who have known me for years, they know that I am about what I like. My clothes, my hair, everything was always unique. I cared less about what anyone thought for as long as I was comfortable and feeling confident in it I was good. Every piece of that person shattered and gone….


ARE YOU SETTLING BECAUSE OF THE D!?

This blog is inspired by the current affair brought to you by Olinda, Tytan & the other woman. So turns out Tytan has cheated AGAIN on his wife who married him, as Twitter says, Olinda. Now we have always known Olinda to take her L’s publicly, every single time. She does this with every single…


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