Tag: relationships

UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU CHAPTER 14

He had that look on his face, the one he wore when he wanted to say something that would hurt me. I saw it, from the time I woke up, I decided to mind my own. I ignored it, I was not going to ask for it this time around. Then it was combined with…


UNTIL IT HAPPENS TO YOU CHAPTER 13

I received a DM one day, and it was from this designer I followed on Instagram. Her work was absolutely great and I wanted to model for her. One day I had dropped a comment on her post, something about wanting to model for her and she responded positively then ghosted. I had not taken…


LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX, BABY!

Going into a relationship sex is usually the easy part, but like any other part of a relationship sooner or later you will find yourself needing to talk about it with your partner. The talk can easily be anything from positions to frequency. Being two individuals with different pasts; hopes and plans for your sexual…


HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT…

There seems to be a serious problem on our hands and we need to fix it. I feel like if I roll my eyes one more time for every dumb thing a guy does or says to ‘impress’ me they won’t unroll. I take the fault on behalf of the ladies, cause we haven’t made…


HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR HEARTBREAK

Alcohol, even after you quit you will need the alcohol, put your back into chugging it! Uh-huh, now that you are here let me be serious. Heartbreak is one thing we can not avoid, unless of course, we isolate ourselves from the world, good luck trying that. We are broken by life experiences, family members,…


5 EFFECTS OF HEARTBREAK YOU MAY NOT KNOW ABOUT

You could die from a heartbreak! Heartbreak is the actual ghetto, I know you know it too. We have become so guarded as people because we do not want to go through it. Our walls are all the way up and trust is nowhere to be found. Quite frankly we are justified for this because…


ARE YOU DATING FOR LOVE OR GAIN

I am embarrassed to have to state that most romantic relationships are merely reduced to an exchange of sex and money and, of course, other things in between; things that include wanting to be socially accepted, wanting to feel self-assured, or just being bored, inter-alia. Almost all, if-not-all, of us indulge in relationships with a…


HOW TO REBUILD YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR EX

I can already hear the grunting and the high toned question, ‘why would I want to go back to my ex?’ Quick reality check, we do this all the time but want to act like we are gurus at shutting doors during the people. Cut the act, the heart wants what it wants. So let’s…


DOES THE AGE GAP REALLY MATTER?

There I was, under the blankets, with a cup of coffee in one hand and my phone in the other. I was scrolling through my timeline on Twitter and the next thing I know I am watching a video about a couple with 28 year age gap. It didn’t really hit until I read, ‘the…


8 CORNY QUOTES TO KEEP YOUR LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP ALIVE!

“Long distance relationships are the GHETTO!” Yes, yes they are and for someone who agrees with this notion, I have been in one too many. If we really look at it closely, you don’t really plan on getting into a long distance relationship, life just happens most times. Your heart can’t really be stopped, sigh….


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